How To Have Anal Sex Safely
Sometimes a sexual relationship is about taking chances and experimenting with new ways to find pleasure from sex with the same partner. This comes from trying out different types of stimulation. One of the newer forms of pleasure may be from anal sex.
If you and your partner are going to attempt anal sex you must know that because of the millions of nerve endings in the anus, anal sex can be incredibly pleasuring. However, because of the same amount of nerve endings anal sex, if not approached properly can be rather painful for both parties.
For the woman the most important aspect of preparing for anal sex is relaxation. It is important to have not only the anus, but the vagina relaxed. Having vaginal intercourse prior to anal sex is highly recommended. This will allow the woman to feel comfortable physically. It is also good practice to have the anus stimulated by a finger first. The simple act of lubricating a finger to insert into the anus slowly and repeatedly can create a very good and intense stimulation that can prepare the anus for sex.
For the male two things are worth noting when preparing for anal. The first is that erection must be at a maximum. The anus is a smaller opening than the vagina therefore it will take the blood flow to the penis to be at a maximum. The other thing necessary is for the penis as well as the anus to be well lubricated even when wearing a condom. The vagina is self lubricating, especially at time of maximum stimulation. The anus is never self lubricating. Making sure not only is the anus by the penis lubricated will be helpful in not only overall pleasure but specifically in the ability to create penetration.
Once the penis has entered the anus it is important to begin slowly. Alerting all the nerve endings in the anus to penetration can be a delicate matter not to mention the penis must make itself comfortable inside that space. Anal sex can be a pleasure filled experience but it must be done with great care.


